I think a man, when courting a woman, should prove that he is financially able to provide for her to some extent, if she should warrant that.
I think that should happen in all relationship dynamics. This isn’t being a gold digger — it doesn’t mean she’s asking for riches and big houses and luxury items.
Men are the providers. They provide. They go out, they face the outside world, they do the hard things it takes to bring wealth to the family.
Why is he not supposed to prove that to a woman he’s trying to bring in as a wife? Why should that woman just “trust” that he’s got it all together? Because he MIGHT NOT.
I see men asking “What does she bring in, other than her vagina?”
-_- That certainly belittles what a woman typically brings in.
No one’s going to like what I’m saying on this.
But I’ve said it before.
Wives are luxury items.
Not every man deserves a wife if he can’t take care of one.
Think of wives as luxury items. She’s gonna come in, she’s going to be pretty to you, she’s gonna smell good, she’s gonna be soft, she’s gonna be sweet. You’re going to want her softness and you’re going to want to smell her, you’re going to want her companionship, her sensuality. She’ll clean, she’ll cook, she’ll mother and nurture your children. She’ll nurse all of you when you’re sick.
And yes, she comes with a vagina.
Wives — good ones — are luxury items.
Don’t belittle that position. And don’t think you just deserve one just because you want one. Don’t think she just has to take your word for it that you can provide well for her. SHE DONT KNOW YOU and wont know you until she’s apart of your household, monogamous OR polygynous.
You want her to do her job and prove she can do it? Fine.
But you do your job and prove you can do it, too.
And don’t give me all that “I can cook for myself and nurse myself” Nonsense. Alot of women can change their own flat tires and fix the leak under the sink these days, too.
But it’s SOOOO much nicer when you have a woman that can cook and nurse you; just as it’s soooo much nicer when a woman can depend on a man to fix her flat, change her oil, and get that leak under the sink.
(This is all in the traditional sense of man and woman and their stations — if you’re not into that, ignore me)
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December 17, 2016 at 3:33 pm
Kimahri Simon
I %100 agree with you… thats %100 biblical…. here the problem i have.. the dirtbag hebrew Israelites pimp out their wives.. having them work and dont appriciate them. So a lot of sistets frown on a man having to wives because duchbag hebrew brothers and they are too Americanized. So i provide for my wife and 3 kid’s and about to build a 6 bedroom house outside of Babylon as i speak but i cant find no sisters witn your mind set… i can easily provide for another wife AND the the children that come forth. But just as it hard to find a good wife ( which i have) or a good man … its even harder to find a second wife
December 24, 2016 at 5:29 pm
Dr3@MGYRL360
Not every Hebrew Israelite is a dirtbag or a pimp, ftr. There are men from all walks of life who do these things. What happens with Hebrew Israelites is just representative of American blacks in general, and America in general, and the entire Western World, in general.
There are some men that just aren’t good and don’t deserve more than one wife.
We are Hebrew and we have two businesses. My husband is the hardest working individual most people have ever met. His wives do our part and try to make sure he has everything he needs from us in order to do all that he does. 😉 So “not all” is something I feel the need to say when people don’t establish that they’re making a generalized statement.
Congrats on the house!! Keep Moving Forward! – DG